Thursday, August 23, 2012

Youthful Obsessions

 

Definition of obsess (v)
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ob·sess
[ əb séss ]

1. never stop thinking about something: to occupy somebody's thoughts constantly and exclusively.
 
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We visited a local retailer the other night for the midnight release of the video for the first Hunger Games.
The turn-out was very impressive and I have to say - it turns out a majority of the kids at the release had seen the movie in the theatre but had also read the books. Most had already finished the entire series. Some said they had re-read them in anticipation of this movie coming out on DVD.
 
The same was true when the Harry Potter collection was at its' peak a few years ago. I was in the stores at midnight when the newest books for that series came out and kids were standing in the checkout lines starting to read on the spot because they couldn't wait to dive into them and find out what might happen next in these adventures.
Kids are reading.

I had a grandmother who loved to read. It was magical to go to her home and peruse her bookshelves on a rainy day and see what I might find. My parents were both readers, too. I was well acquainted early on with The Bobbsey Twins and The Little House on the Prairie. Volumes of the Readers Digest Condensed Books were a big part of my summers as a child. This year I have read more than I have in a long time. I have felt a hunger to lap up all of the words that I can because I have some panic within me that they are disappearing and soon all of our magical stories will be invisible downloads. However then will we be able to physically hand over a book we enjoyed and pass it on to another?  I always have at least one, often two books that are parked in various spaces in my life - in the car, at my bedside table and in the den for when my own writer's block decides to visit.
I have a Kindle Fire now and I enjoy it immensely even though I didn't want to. However, already, I've experienced the downside. Two of my most enjoyable books of the summer that that I wanted to share with a good friend left me only describing how wonderful they were. When what I really wanted to do was drive right over to her house, thrust one at her and say, "You have to read this!" 

And so I am now hoarding books. I have some in every room in our home and when I am able to acquire more I do. I love it that my kids and friends can stand in my living room and stare at my bookshelves, like I used to at my grandmother's, and hopefully find a good tale to envelope them. 
 
I haven't taken an anti-Harry Potter or anti-Hunger Games stand. I know some parents that are uncomfortable with the themes of these stories but I've actually enjoyed both of the series myself and it seems like my own kids and their friends have read them as simply entertaining fantasies.
All I can keep thinking about for the most part is:  Isn't it awesome?!

"She's obsessed with those books," A friend said about her daughter a couple of years ago when the Harry Potter adventure was full bore, "She's read them all about three times."  And these are not thin, light reads. It takes some substantial reading time to muddle through one. 

As a kid I was a die-hard Judy Blume and Beverly Cleary fan, also. They are still among the other books that are on my bookshelves.
And they weren't nearly as big as the books that these kids are devouring. My own kids liked the Harry Potter series so much that they each bought their own set of books to have to keep. Yea! for pages and bindings and books you can feel and touch that will at least continue on for awhile longer.
Someday I hope they fight it out over the rest of my collections and that someone will want to keep them. Because I have been afraid. There are so many things competing with stories for our kids' attention now. They're basically 'hooked up' with the world at their fingertips 24 hours a day with new video games, e-readers and apps that come out every handful of minutes for their enjoyment and entertainment that I had already started to mourn the loss of kids that loved to read.  
Maybe I was wrong.

Sofas and lawn swings and hammocks are all inviting places again this summer for this new generation of readers. And there are so many other good books out there to discover.
My heart is singing.

Besides, (sigh!) I, too, had an obsession as a teenager.




 

 




Friday, August 17, 2012

VACATION


Last week was the highlight of our summer.

We took two vacations with two different couples and crammed them into eight days.
One was a major, air fare needed, non-stop exploring trip to New York City. What's not to love?
We left on a Saturday and returned home on Wednesday. In between we picked the city clean of every sight-seeing opportunity and curiosity we could muster between the four of us. We rode ferries, trains, subways, taxis and several double-decker buses.
And you know what? New Yorkers get a bum rap.
More than once we were spotted trying to decide if our map was right-side up and someone would ask if they could help us find something. New York-Nice, who knew?!

We had been there as a family several years ago but you can definately make several trips to New York and still see something you didn't get a chance to the time before. My friend, Michelle, and I are already talking about things we want to see the next time. (Although Kirk did say something about me keeping my butt home for awhile).

Still, we covered plenty of area while we were there.
We saw the Statue of Liberty.

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And we stayed right in the heart of all the excitement - Times Square.  


  
We took a carriage around Central Park and we went to the 911 Memorial.



We also took da' train to Hoboken and visited Carlos' Bake Shop from the TLC show The Cake Boss. No Buddy on site of course but the goodies we bought were tasty.


And getting up early paid off because we beat the big line that was there by the time we came out.


It was a dream of a trip and we had a blast...

,,, Only to pack up again and hop in the car two days later to head over to Duluth for a smaller, more local  vacation. The timing for something slower pace was perfect. The whole weekend was
because we stayed here:

The Firelight Inn Bed and Breakfast.


The friends we went with had stayed at the Firelight several times and have always shared stories fondly of their weekends there. Now we know why. The owners, Jim and Joy, are so personable we felt like we'd known them for years even though it was our first visit.

 The Inn is so tastefully and exquisitely decorated that every room is simply perfect. We stayed in the Superior Suite that included our own living room and a bedroom with a fireplace and jacuzzi tub.

The Blues Festival was also going on in Duluth last weekend. We originally talked about taking in the festival and all that it entails but as it got closer and closer we unanimously opted for a weekend that was a little slower paced. We lounged the mornings away in our charming little rooms and moved at a turtle's pace, enjoying the breakfasts that were magically delivered outside our door in the mornings in wicker baskets covered with linens promising delicious surprises.

Day one's breakfast looked like this:












And Day two was just as wonderful:




The Firelight Inn is lovely.



If you are looking for a quiet, relaxing (or romantic!)  little getaway this spot is perfect. If you want to lounge casually for a couple of days this is the spot. And if you desire a little more - everything that Duluth has to offer is waiting right outside the door.
As with most bed and breakfasts, there is water and coffee and other niceties for your enjoyment throughout the day and Jim and Joy keep the butler's pantry stocked with plenty of goodies including fresh baked cookies. Joy is such a wonderful cook we even brought home one of the Inn's cookbooks but I won't even pretend that I can pull off what she does. Lucky for me, Kirk's expectations are realistic about that, too, after 26 years.

And then (sigh!) there is this:



The front porch to beat all front porches. This is the porch I've seen in my dreams.
It immediately made it on to my list of the top five places to be on earth.

Firelight Inn overlooks Oregon Creek and just the right amount of sunshine makes its way into this wonderful sitting area. It is perfect for napping, reading and visiting. The friend I was with is also a writer and we both agreed that this would be the perfect place to inspire someone to finish a brilliant piece of work.

I drank coffee there.
I drank wine there.
Kirk and I played a trivia game there and visited with our friends for most of Saturday morning there.
If the temptation of the Lake Walk to Canal Park hadn't have called us we might have spent the rest of the weekend sitting right there on the porch.

Maybe next time.